Friendship
"Judge people by their actions and behaviour - not by the labels they are born with"
Welcome to my Blog
A warm welcome to my Blog
I shall post some news of interest to Sri lankans about life in Sri Lanka in the period 1950-1960 mainly. This will feature articles on music, general history and medicine. I am dedicated to humanism and refuse to judge people according to labels they are born with. Their actions and behaviour shall be my yardsticks, always cognizant of the challenges they faced in life.
Thursday, 9 April 2026
Culture and Belief Systems
Saturday, 31 January 2026
My thoughts on Self and “Anatta”
My thoughts on Self and “Anatta”
Hello, this is Mahendra and I want to record my thoughts about the concept of self. It's often debated in philosophical and religious circles. There are people who believe that the self exists only as a concept and there's no real self as such.
And some people even label the concept of self as a hallucination or a delusion, a virtual self. Buddhists refer to the concept of anicca, which means everything is impermanent. And on that basis, they say that a self cannot exist (anatta) as, if there is a self, it will obey the laws of anicca, which means the end result is no self (anatta).
I take a slightly different view on the interpretation of the Buddhist concept. I think what the Lord Buddha said is that there is no unchanging or permanent self. The self or identity of self exists but is subject to change just like everything else in the universe and therefore cannot be an unchanging entity as for example a soul.
I am Mahendra Gonsalkorale as of now, this moment, but I'm not the same Mahendra Gonsalkorale who was born 80 odd years ago and I have probably nothing that I was born with which has persisted from my birth to my current state. I am a mixture of memories, ideas, likes, dislikes, concepts, beliefs, past memories, future projections, and even my physical being is changing all the time. In other words, there is a Mahendra Gonsalkorale but this entity is changing all the time and is evolving from a state or moment in time to another moment and as this process can move slowly or rapidly for the various constituents of Mahendra, I may appear as unchanged depending on the time scale applied. For example, if it was possible to construct a 5 year old Mahendra, there would be hardly any noticeable commonality even if it was possible to have a dialogue with him. But the Mahendra 1 week ago will still be immediately recognisable as Mahendra as he is now. In this context, it is useful to go back to the well known “Ship of Theseus Paradox” on whether a ship which over time has changed all its components can be still called the original ship.
All my cells have turned over so that I would not possess a single cell I was born with in 1944. But to me, the question is whether there is “something” which I might call the “core self”, upon which other things are added like your memories, your beliefs, your explanations, your opinions, and all the memories that you gather of the physical world outside. As a Doctor, I think this “core-self framework” has genetic and possibly other currently unknown elements which contribute to the object referred to as Mahendra. This “something” is in fact a hard to define “core framework”, which is unique to me, which I call Mahendra. The core framework is not a physical entity but is something which makes me unique. In other words, all humans are a “mind-body” complex where the mind component is a subtle framework which gathers all the components attributes, both physical attributes (not physical in the sense of a material object) and non-physical attributes, that makes a person a person, or self or him or her.
And this framework, although it is changing all the time, is still uniquely mine. The Mahendra Gonsalkorale framework does not apply to, say, my brother Daya or Raj. We may have common memories and features but we are different ever changing entities but still entities. My constantly changing identity within this entity is uniquely mine.
We may have different memories. But within that core or within that framework, that outline of what I call Mahendra, there are things which are constantly changing.
So the question is whether my belief in a framework, which I call Mahendra or self, is also untrue. And this is may be so because even a framework has to change all the time. But does it necessarily have to change in the way physical objects change? So my question is- “ is the self or identity of self, something that is there, but impermanent (anicca)?” And therefore, when we say anatta, which means there is no permanent soul (as there is in Hinduism), it means that you as a person or identity is constantly changing. And therefore, there's nothing within you which is unchanging, but this changing dynamically unstable self is still unique to you and separable from others. This separation is obvious physically but may not apply to the physically state alone.
I find it a bit difficult to accept that there is no “core Mahendra” or “framework of Mahendra”, because I still pack things into this changing framework as I change physically. And if you talk to me and you talk to another friend of mine, we come across as quite different people with different ideas, different memories and so on. So going back to the Buddhist concept of anatta, I think what Lord Buddha meant to say is that although we may have an underlying consciousness stream or whatever you want to call it, which I label in my case as “Mahendra’s core framework”, it is not something which is consistent or constant, although it is distinct from the framework of others. For the purpose of living within a community of beings, it is helpful to think that we are not unchanging permanent objects but are selves with“frameworks” interacting with each other. We are given names to make living easier but we have a huge amount of shared and interactive components.
It is changing all the time because every microsecond
I exist, I gather data, memory, information, which changes me. But my question
is whether there is something which I used the term “Framework” which is unique
to each person at birth but is undergoing change all the time since then. My
contention at first appears to go against the “anatta” concept in
Buddhism but on closer examination, there is no contradiction, as the “Framework”
is also changing all the time. Why postulate a Framework at all? To me it is a satisfactory
way of understanding “self” and its impermanence while preserving the
uniqueness of a person.
Added on 02-02-2026.
Sunday, 11 January 2026
Dhushy video - a test
Wednesday, 21 May 2025
MY PONDERINGS ON KARMA
MY PONDERINGS ON HOW IS IT POSSIBLE FOR “KARMA” TO AFFECT
A LIFE TO BE BORN AND IF SO TO WHAT EXTENT.
Mahendra Gonsalkorale. 21.05.2025
| Time | Heriditary | Environment | Culture | Life style | Diseases | Life Partnerships | Chance factors |
| Life Time | Genes Parental | Family born to | Customs | Diet | Hypertension | Married or single | natural disasters |
| Genes Species | Period born in | Religious | Exercise | Diabetes | Friends asscociated | random occurences | |
| Country born in | Family | ||||||
| Group | |||||||
| At Birth | Genes | yes | yes | congenital | yes |
To start with, we know that life starts when an ovum is fertilised by a sperm, resulting in a zygote which continues to multiply and grow in size and, quite miraculously, forms a foetus which matures and prepares to lead a separate life outside the mother’s womb. While it is in the mother’s womb, long before it can be held responsible for any “actions”, its future is greatly influenced by the genes it has inherited, and by the health of the mother (and these genes go back multiple generations). I cannot see a foetus having a “personality” and having the ability to make “decisions”. For example, it cannot decide to be aborted, or induced to be born earlier or to be born by caesarean section. If the delivered baby has after-effects because of the manner in which it was born, then the parents, healthcare workers, healthcare facilities, etc, will have to be held responsible; certainly not the foetus/baby!
If we entertain the concept that a past life (of this newborn) is
in some way affecting its future by having an influence on all the factors
given above, I cannot see any conceivable or even a highly speculative and
imaginary way it could happen. You are talking about the karmic influences of the parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, family, medical personnel, health care facilities, all being intertwined in an unimaginable way to produce a scene where all these operate to produce the final effect. To me, this is
impossible.
Let us now get to the genetic stage and a possible way of
the foetus’s genes being affected by a past life (stream of consciousness). Firstly,
it is then necessary for causes and results of actions in any birth to become
encoded in the gene. To the scientific mind, it cannot be accepted that a “spirit”
carrying vital information passes into the foetus. At a less detailed level, if
some key features (to be defined) can pass through an identifiable energy form,
yet to be discovered, then we have an answer. The fact that none has been discovered
so far is not evidence against it.
(All living things, including humans, constantly emit a
ghostly glow – and it appears to vanish almost as soon as we die. Monitoring
this signal could one day help track forest health or even detect diseases in
people.
The existence of this barely perceptible glow has been
controversial, but it is thought to be the result of a process called ultraweak
photon emission. Mitochondria and other energy-producing machinery in our cells
involve molecules gaining and losing energy, in turn emitting the equivalent of
a few photons a second per square centimetre of skin tissue. However, these
“biophotons” are extremely difficult to detect and disentangle from other
biological processes or light sources, such as the radiation produced by any
warm object.-New Scientist May 5th 2025)
I don’t know but if the “glow” at death could be harnessed
and examined in detail, it may yield some answers.
Let us imagine that some form of energy escapes as death occurs.
If we take Karma as operational in the next birth, there are huge problems with making it a viable hypothesis. Some questions are:- how far can this energy travel?
Just within the immediate environment or across the seas, across the universe?
How does the stream “know” when the ideal candidate foetus is found? Not only that,
the ideal candidate for rebirth could be a non-human animal or even a deva in
another realm!
Even if we, for the sake of argument, propose that this is possible, it is unimaginable to think that this extruded energy form is transmitting billions of encoded data through space and time, to an infinitesimally tiny target, potentially millions of miles away. It could be argued of course, that
our concept of space and time is flawed, and there is a big rethink about space
and time at the moment.
Even if that is a possibility for the sake of carrying on
this thinking, look at all the factors that determine or affect the future life
of a person as I have outlined in my table. If, for example, we say that the person who died in the plane crash did so because of Karma, then an interminable series of events must be brought in. He was in the plane because he was taking up a new
job for which he owed much to many people (his karma determined his success),
his plane was delayed because the plane was waiting for a delayed passenger who
got delayed because the taxi he took met with an accident which happened
because the taxi driver was tired because he hardly slept worrying about his
new born unwell child (Karma of taxi driver, his wife, his child etc)… etc.,
you get the gist?
Random events do happen in Nature and people living at that particular
time and area can be affected by it, sometimes to the extent that they lose their
lives, as in a volcanic eruption. To postulate that you were born in an area when
volcanoes can erupt unexpectedly and you happened to be there when the volcano erupted
unexpectedly because of your karama, is the height of fanciful thinking.
I don’t know the answers but to postulate that your future life
events are determined by data carried in your genes which came to you by some
form of complex energy from the being that preceded you as it died and passed on
to you, requires considerable faith. That
your life is affected by your genes is of course a fact, and you have no control
at all on your genetic inheritance when you were born.
The question of why some people recall a past life remains
to be explained. I don’t dismiss these stories as fantasy, as some scientists
do. They need intense scrutiny to rule out fraud and explainable factors such
as, a lot of stories being too general and easily applicable to many in a
nonspecific manner. But there are some which have passed this test and remain a
verified story awaiting a scientific explanation. It is a pity that a global
scientific experiment has not been mounted with well defined protocols and
methods which are acceptable to the most sceptic mind. If such an initiative is
launched and incontestable evidence is found, then we have to find an explanation
for it and one experiment I would love to see is a very intense and high
powered one to find out whether some form of energy is emitted as we die. This
would still not explain how intricate data is transmitted but that would be the
next step.
To my mind, all these are interesting questions to an
inquiring mind. To have too much faith in a past life and past karma is not a
good thing. It can lead one to a deterministic and fatalistic way of thinking.
On the other hand, if you believe that your actions do have repercussions and
it is good to be mindful about what you do, just as you avoid the action
of smoking cigarettes to avoid the risk of heart and lung disease (the
result), it is a good thing.
I am a firm believer of the process of Evolution. It not
only explains the diversity of life on our planet in a beautiful and methodical
way, but also forms a good basis for morality. Successful species were
successful because they collaborated and cooperated. They learnt that without
love, empathy and kindness to other living beings, they would disappear. This
love however is conditional in the sense that as animals need to survive, they
had to kill some animals at times and also had to defend themselves by
attacking and killing marauders. The universal
love which we value, evolved as a later development. The starting point was
love for their offspring, mates, close associates and “herd”.
Tuesday, 4 March 2025
The Good Enough Life by Daniel Miller
The Good Enough Life byDaniel Miller.
I found this review quite challenging and interesting. I shall place an order for itsoon.
Mahendra
Daniel Miller’s book ‘The Good Enough Life’ is an original exploration of what life could and should be, based on his study of the residents of Skerries. We had the chance to ask him some questions ahead of his appearance at the We Invented the Weekend Festival on Sunday 16 June.
Q: Does the ‘good life’ as typified by the residents of Skerries represent a transplantable model or framework that might be applied elsewhere? Or must a truly happy community reach an equivalent equilibrium independent of outside influences?
A: In my book I detail the many factors that have come together to explain why people praise their town as the basis of a good life. For example, it is a town large enough that people feel some autonomy and small enough to expect to greet friends when they go out for a walk. I show why it was important that the community was largely created by migrants (blow-ins) rather than its historical population. I examine their deep commitment to family and the community. There is an egalitarian ethos and for the retirees I worked with, a freedom from obligations that may last now for decades. I assume that other places favoured by their residents share some of these traits and lack others. While entirely other factors may be relevant.
In considering outside factors, for Skerries, as an Irish town, this includes a relatively stable government, and a sense that they have benefited considerably from the EU. I also noted a marked desire to differentiate themselves from what they see as the divisive politics of Northern Ireland, as opposed to their highly consensual local politics. So yes, an equivalent place elsewhere is likely to require its own equilibrium of both inside and outside influences.
Q: How should we measure success and happiness in a society that often equates these concepts with wealth and consumption? What alternative metrics could be more meaningful?
A: The key point here is that we should not be imposing our criteria for what makes a good life onto another population. My book is not based on my judgment that this was a happy place. I wrote this book because the people of the town went on and on about how much they loved living there and saw it as the source of their happiness. My job was to find out why?
With regard to wealth and consumption, the standard of living in this average Irish town is now slightly higher than the UK and it may be significant that most of the people I worked with were born in poverty and appreciate the benefits of living what they would call a comfortable life. But status in the town today comes almost entirely from public commitments to environmental welfare and sustainability, while conspicuous consumption is scorned.
“For these reasons the key metric is whatever the people themselves use to measure their sense that they are living the good enough life, and then the task is to explain why they favour this measure.”
Q: How do different cultures define and pursue a ’good’ life? Are there universal principles, or is it highly context-dependent?
A: I have worked as an anthropologist in places ranging from India and London, to the Caribbean and Ireland. The universal that lies behind my book comes from the observation that many societies have a similar term to our word good. A word that links being a morally upright (good) person to the idea of having an enjoyable (good) time. Linking these two seems to be an ideal, irrespective of whether one does in fact depend on the other.
But both senses of this word, what makes a person moral and what makes life enjoyable, will be highly context dependent. The farmers I lived with in an Indian village would look aghast at the criteria that I found in secular Skerries.
“My discipline of anthropology is committed to reminding people of just how distinct each population remains with regard to such judgments. We need to respect the degree that things we assume are obvious and neutral are actually nothing of the kind.”
Q: How does our environment, both natural and built, shape our happiness and quality of life? Are there particular types of environments that are universally beneficial?
A: I have lived in several places where people depended mainly on what they grew as farmers or fished and had very few commodities. Some were mainly content and others mainly miserable. I don’t romanticise the condition of peoples who have limited access to medicine and education, whose economic security depends on the weather and whose lives are generally shorter than ours. In turn I suspect you have been to cities you really would rather not live in and some you find attractive propositions. Clearly living in a city is no guarantee of a good life either.
One thing about the environment is for sure – if Skerries is a happy place, it’s certainly not because of the weather (!). There are elements of the environment most of us enjoy, such as beautiful landscapes while few find inspiration in an industrial wasteland. But more generally I think it is social and cultural values that have much more influence on happiness and the quality of our lives.
Q: How has technology changed the way we form and maintain communities? Can virtual communities offer the same depth of connection as physical ones?
As with many populations, people in Skerries tend to be very negative if you ask them about social media and smartphones in general. But the same people can be quite positive when I discuss particular apps, or how Facebook has become a community platform. Older people suffer greatly from a digital divide if they feel unable to use these technologies but may then enjoy a reconnection with their youth if they do subsequently master them.
What we need right now are not quick judgments suggesting these technologies are good or bad, but long-term scholarly observations of the hundreds of ways these technologies impact our lives.
That’s why I lived in Skerries for 16 months before thinking that I had any understanding of this question. Dividing the world into the physical and the virtual doesn’t work either. Hardly anyone lives just online or without any online. It a constant blending of the two.
Our team has written thousands of pages based on our observations around the world. You can read about the results of this research through our free books, such as The Global Smartphone, or How The World Changed Social Media. The point is that discussion of this question needs to be evidence led
Thursday, 28 November 2024
MAKING SENSE OF THE WORLD
MAKING SENSE OF THE WORLD
Mahendra Gonsalkorale 27th November 2024Mahendra's Musings no: 9
Most human beings are aware of their emotions which are broadly a) pleasant b) unpleasant or c) Neutral. Emotions are inextricably tied up with past memories and future anticipatory thoughts affected by the experience of the present moment (which by the way is a misnomer as the passage from moment to moment is so short lived that it is better described as continuing experience of time).
Humans also have an expectation that there is some sort of moral law/s which operates in life so that life lends itself to “purpose “or “meaning”. Purpose has no universally agreed definition as it is mostly associated with religious thinking. God created this World with a “purpose” and we are all acting within this stage with expectation of rewards for good behaviour and bad rewards (punishment) for bad behaviour. There is “good” and “evil” in this world. This makes sense to many people as it seems intuitively reasonable to have order and harmony over which we are at least partly responsible. (There is is a debate about this on whether we have “free will” or not, but I won’t go into that) . This strengthens those who believe in moral principles that ought to determine how we live. The place of random events has never been well described or explained in a moral context especially how random events fit in this scheme of “cause and effect- (the Buddhist concept of paticca samupada at least in part), be it through a supernatural power or through the Buddhist concept of karma (actions) and vipaka (effects). There is no easy, plausible explanation for how random events can lead to a big change in the “destiny” (or future life events) of a person in a “fair” manner. Random events cannot be judgmental or deterministic unless randomness itself is redefined as deterministic through poorly understood means. Maybe through cultural conditioning but this concept of “fairness and unfairness” keeps creeping up.
Evolution offers some insight into this but not in a moralistic way, but through the concept of the main driver for evolution: the propagation of the gene (through which expressions are made). If we consider behaviour in human beings and how human beings developed into the most sophisticated animals on Earth, we cannot escape from the fact that individual animals had a better chance to survive and adapt if they cooperated with common goals. This is not an all or none approach. There are enough examples of humans who behaved frankly selfishly and still managed to advance their place in Society. Societies themselves can become corrupted with selfishness but history tells us that in the long run, such societies did not flourish. This is to be expected in a process which is not governed by moral principles. Moral principles are not absolute but have evolved to help the survival of the gene. It can, therefore, work both ways. There is no judge to pass judgment. When a gene mutates, it has no idea of the result. Those resulting in advantageous characterstics will survive and pass it on. It can be explained by pure logical thought and does not rely on faith or belief systems.
For Physicalists who believe that all and everything, including obviously tangible physical things and even more intangible things such as emotions, empathy, appreciation of beauty, love, hatred, and compassion have a physical basis, they will find it hard to explain why we should indulge in moral behaviour. They could use a pure Darwinian model as I have done. Those with more bimodal explanations will have either a totally dualistic view or a somewhat ill-defined view that there “is something other than the physical”, with some resorting to the get-out clause of "spirituality" (which remains vague). Those who do that are perilously close to the creation myth although I admit that I may have got that wrong.
The other big problem is the methods we use to understand and explain. The most logical and appealing method is the scientific method. This, however, always carries the caveat that Science is not about absolute truths but about providing the best explanation for observed and validated phenomena by a rigorous method. Science also has the immense advantage of showing concrete examples of the emergence of various technological aids to make human existence more palatable. These are what we call “visible validations”. Science is never the kind of purely empirical enterprise it is generally reputed to be. Ontological as well as epistemological presuppositions do inevitably play an essential role.
Philosophers are just thinkers- pouring over thoughts, concepts, beliefs and offering their own explanations which can never be truly validated. No philosophical belief has ever been validated by an empirical finding. They remain the view of the Philosopher/s which will appeal to the logic of those who study them. But Philosophers to their credit, also recognise that their concepts are dynamic and subject to change.
This leaves the Theists who firmly believe that the “Truth” has been revealed and it can only be one. Either one religion is correct or ALL are incorrect. Their systems are not open to intellectual scrutiny (as science is). They either rely on texts handed down through centuries (or verbal records before that ) , with no consistency and a large amount of variation and interpretation of “what has been said by the Lord or Religious figure”. The other claim is that human beings are somehow born with the innate capacity to “self-realise” the truth with no safeguards on whether this is a “self-delusion” instead of an enlightenment. The fact that many of these people who claim to be enlightened have seen or experienced (depending on their faith), Jesus Christ, Allah, the Buddhas and other religious figures supports my view. I also ask the question why these enlightened souls did not then proceed to teach and help all of us poor mortals who are blind and thus help us to know the Truth. You may counter that by pointing to famous powerful religious figures who apparently do that but again they use Faith as their instrument, and not reason.
Of course, some facts are always true, such as 2+2 is 4, the square root of 9 is 3, a triangle has 3 sides, etc. These are material truths and not “mind” truths; they do not deal with questions of morality, emotions, behaviour, etc.and I doubt whether they can be considered in the same way. When Roger Penrose says that consciousness can be located in microtubules in neurons, we are no closer to understanding the real nature of consciousness.
So, what are we left with? It boils down in my view as to make a decision on how best to spend our time between birth and death with least discomfort, maximum comfort (or non-discomfort) . It helps if you realise this can be truly achieved by considering three important elements in this scenario. Firstly your concept of self identity, ego etc (probably impermanent), secondly that you live in a society or group which includes apart from your immediate loved ones, other humans (and animals) and lastly that the first two exist in a material Universe (a material reality) which in not a figment of our imagination although the true nature of it will remain somewhat illusory because the interpretation of our world “outside” which is also part of our world “inside” will always be a slave to how we recognise the world outside though the very apparatus we are questioning. The fact that we cannot truly “know” in an absolute empirical sense the outside material world is interpreted by some, wrongly in my view, as that what we sense is an illusion. But like Einstein famously said, “the moon is there even when I don’t look at it”, and I challenge a believer who thinks that all this is a virtual reality, to close their eyes and then walk in a space they are taken to without being given any information about it. You can then witness him/her it walking in this unreal workd till he stumbles on an obstacle he cannot see and therefore according to him, does not exist! The only way he won’t stumble is if he is given some information about the space he has visited before (and obstacles he could expect) and has a visuo-spatial concept of what it is like.
I invite my blog readers to please comment and come forward with their own views. I extend my apologies to those patient ones who arrived at this point for some elements of repetition
